Fertility Blog

What’s the f*cking point?

I can’t wait for this to be done, so I don’t have to do this sh*t anymore.

Why do I have to make all of these changes, and no one else does?

It’s a narrative that slips into your mind a LOT on this journey, so if you’ve been saying these...

One of the things I struggled with a lot on my fertility journey, was not being able to picture holding a baby in my arms at the end of it. I had hopes and dreams before we started trying to conceive, but a couple of years in, and I just couldn’t imagine it anymore.

And it worried me....

Infertility can feel all-consuming. It’s the first thing you think of when you wake up in the morning, and it’s the last thought you have when you close your eyes at night. It changes the way you’re able to socialise with other people, it affects your relationship with your...

I read some comments on a post over on Instagram the other day that were completely offensive to those who are trying in vain to have children via assisted reproductive methods. It made my blood boil, because it made me feel judged for the decisions I had made to create my family. Plus they were...

I originally stumbled upon cold water therapy when the Whim Hoff method was at its most popular. I got caught up in it while it was trending, and then lost interest.

But since then, then I’ve incorporated hot-cold therapy into my life for other reasons, the most significant...

If you’re feeling overwhelmed and burnt out right now, you’re not alone. Competing priorities, impossible expectations, and a never-ending to-do list can do that to you. A lot of us are just living our lives in survival mode, trying to keep our head above water (while still trying to...

When you’re struggling to conceive, or to stay pregnant, this is a question we ask ourselves all the time.

What if this doesn’t work out?

What if all the shit I’ve put myself and my family through is all for nothing?

What if we don’t get our baby in the end?

But even...

Last week I wrote a blog on all the things we blame ourselves for, and why these things are not your fault. You can read the exhaustive (and exhausting) list HERE.

I think deep down we know we’re being unreasonable in our self-blame, and that the things we’re blaming ourselves for...

We live in a world where it’s more important to find out who’s fault something is, rather than how we solve the problem. We point fingers, assign blame, and unfortunately get wrapped up in hate and judgement. That’s the outside world, and unfortunately, we can’t always...

Google can become an addition at the best of times, but when you’re struggling to conceive, it can get a little out of control.  You know it’s not helpful, but you can’t seem to stop yourself.  It interrupts your work-day – you sneak a google session in between...

I was asked a question recently by a woman who said she was struggling to put on a brave face. And it got me thinking…..

What is putting on a brave face?

Why do we feel like we have to put on a brave face?

And how do we evolve past this pressure, and rewrite what bravery actually is?

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The longer you’re on your fertility journey, the more you question who you are, and who you need to be in order to get pregnant.  And if you’ve been trying to get pregnant for a while, you’re at that stage where you would do anything, and change everything about yourself,...